Me a mommy? No, I don't think I have the right holding technique yet...and I care too much about my fingernails... (Kid (Iván) kindly provided by Cristóbal and Isa)I didn't really see it coming, but suddenly it was there... the "preassure". I'm at that age when friends around me are starting to get married and worse: they are having children! Gosh! A few years ago I could say: "I'm too young and want to do so many things before I even start to think about that!!" Now that's not true anymore. I'm not too young for it.
It's not that I have anything against marriage or that I don't like kids, because I do want to get married one day and have kids (when I have gotten rid of my fear of them!) one day. I just feel "not just yet". I feel like a kid myself! But somehow it's getting harder and harder to dodge the questions like "So when are YOU TWO...?? *wink,wink*" My answer is always "Hahahahaaa.. eeeeh....heeee...*walking away*"
It's not that I have anything against marriage or that I don't like kids, because I do want to get married one day and have kids (when I have gotten rid of my fear of them!) one day. I just feel "not just yet". I feel like a kid myself! But somehow it's getting harder and harder to dodge the questions like "So when are YOU TWO...?? *wink,wink*" My answer is always "Hahahahaaa.. eeeeh....heeee...*walking away*"
I have 2 weddings to go to so far this year -one in Ohio, United States and the other one in Turin, Italy - strangely enough I always cry during the ceremony - it's just so beautiful!!! My first and most emotional one was when my best friend Maria got married to her Visa. So beautiful and I was bu-huing like a child who lost his candy!!
Another wedding we must not forget is the one of Princess Victoria of Sweden and that guy with the gym.... (really shows how much I pay attention to the royal news..) That's going to be some wedding party! If only I could take some Swedish tax payer money to plan MY wedding!! Then I would surely get married!
Nah...
I will dance at a few other weddings before I dance at my own... Over and out
And you know what...in a weird way it can even be more fun to attend other people's weddings because you can relax and get tipsy! I was a total control freak during my wedding and could relax properly...life after marriage is wayyyyy much nicer and more romantic than the actual wedding. :)
ReplyDeleteOh my Kickeli! I want to go to weddings too!!! (this is the *wink wink* -part... ;)
ReplyDeleteThe getting married thing is not scary att all...but the babies..... OMG KISS MY SQUIRREL!
Hey girls!! Thanks for your lovely comments!! I agree Paulina, it's a lot of fun going to other people's weddings! Everybody is always in a good and "dancy" mood! But how does life really change after marriage? We already live together, have a joint account, a mortgage(grown up points!!) and what else... go on holidays togehter... I don't really see things changing after that...Enlighten me, girls!!
ReplyDeleteMary, I promise you that you will dance a lot in my wedding party! Do you remember our street funk days?? Missy Elliott, girlfriend! Get your freak on!! Hey Paulina, we ghetto girls will teach you, don't worry!!